Fix residence list not refreshing after add/edit on iOS and Android

Fixed issue where adding or editing a residence didn't update the residence
list, requiring manual refresh to see changes.

iOS Changes:
- ResidencesListView: Added onResidenceCreated callback to AddResidenceView
  sheet that triggers loadMyResidences(forceRefresh: true)
- AddResidenceView: Added onResidenceCreated callback parameter
- ResidenceFormView: Added onSuccess callback that fires before dismissing
  in both create and update modes

Android Changes:
- ResidencesScreen: Added shouldRefresh parameter with LaunchedEffect that
  watches for changes and reloads residences when flag is true
- App.kt (ResidencesRoute): Read "refresh" flag from saved state handle
- App.kt (AddResidenceRoute): Set "refresh" flag in previous back stack
  entry before navigating back on residence created
- App.kt (EditResidenceRoute): Set "refresh" flag before navigating back
  on residence updated

Both platforms now properly refresh the residence list when:
- A new residence is added
- An existing residence is edited
- User joins a residence with code (already working)

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Co-Authored-By: Claude <noreply@anthropic.com>

iosApp/iosApp/Residence/ResidencesListView.swift

@@ -86,7 +86,12 @@ struct ResidencesListView: View {
             }
         }
         .sheet(isPresented: $showingAddResidence) {
-            AddResidenceView(isPresented: $showingAddResidence)
+            AddResidenceView(
+                isPresented: $showingAddResidence,
+                onResidenceCreated: {
+                    viewModel.loadMyResidences(forceRefresh: true)
+                }
+            )
         }
         .sheet(isPresented: $showingJoinResidence) {
             JoinResidenceView(onJoined: {